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2012 – The Year of The Dragon

2012 - The Year of The Dragon

January 23, 2012 begins the Year of The Dragon (more specifically the Year of The Water Dragon).  The dragon is the mightiest of all the Chinese zodiac signs and the only mythical one.  Originally, the dragon represented the emperor & power.  In modern times, it is the ultimate auspicious symbol signifying success & happiness!   This year holds the potential to breathe life-shaping fire into it – a year full of energy & vitality, which may prove to invigorate some and be a bit exhausting to others.  Lots of continued changes are in store!  Have you made room in your home to welcome in this auspicious energy yet?   Yes, we are getting back to the discussion of getting rid of clutter – the unnecessary stuff in your life right now!

Clutter is the biggest obstacle to achieving ANYTHING positive in a person’s life.  I love Feng Shui guru & Soul Coach, Denise Linn‘s description of clutter as being ‘an accumulation of things that impede the flow of energy in your home’.   Positive intention is also an important part of achieving what you want, so be aware of your mental and emotional clutter as well.  Negative self-talk, feelings of scarcity, living in the past, or holding onto resentment toward someone all count!

You can use the Bagua map to find out where stuck or stagnant energy may be in your home (thereby affecting you) by choosing an area in your life you would like to improve and checking for clutter in the corresponding area of the bagua.  For example, the wealth/prosperity area of your home footprint is located in the rear left corner as you walk in the front door.  If this area is cluttered or dirty, it is a good bet that you are having financial challenges as well.  By clearing out and cleaning up those spaces, you should have a clearer vision of your finances. You may even get ideas flowing to you of how to improve them!  Another suggestions is to also check each room individually (line each room’s door up to the bottom of the bagua map).  Do you see any clutter claiming the far left corners?  If you do…..clear it out and clean it up.  Everything counts in Feng Shui – every nook & cranny!

After  clutter clearing, you can decorate your home with symbols of good fortune to usher in the Chinese New Year such as:

– Adding bright colors such as red (happiness) or gold/orange (wealth/happiness).     Note: Chinese brides wear red.

– Putting fruit out such as oranges and tangerines (good health/long life); tangerines with attached leaves (long lasting friendships that are fruitful and multiply as in having children); and persimmons (happiness/wealth)

– Displaying a circular candy tray (candy is the sweet and circular signifies togetherness)

– Putting out a bouquet of flowers (tradition states that if the flowers bloom on New Year’s Day, it will be a prosperous year!  Just make sure you dispose of them as soon as they start losing their freshness.

Starting the Year of The Dragon off with clean and clear spaces decorated with happiness and prosperity in mind will allow wonderful new opportunities and things (such as money) into your life this year!

Gung Hey Fat Choy!     translation:   “Wishing You Prosperity and Wealth”

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Preparing To Ring In The New!

New Year’s Day 2012 is only a hop, skip and jump away (can you detect the movement of energy?) and many of us are preparing to start at least one, and usually more, New Year’s resolutions.  The problem most of us have with resolutions is that our ‘resolve’ is short-lived.  Were we really serious about committing to a successful outcome, or were they just wishful thoughts?  I believe that we all have the best intentions of having them come true, but maybe we didn’t surround ourselves with the correct support to see them through.  Here are a few suggestions to help support your 2012 goals:

1.  State your desire in the positive, rather than the negative.  For example, probably the most popular New Year’s resolution is losing weight –  I want to lose 20 lbs. in the next 3 months.  In this statement, you”re wanting to lose something, rather than gain something.  Rewording your desire by stating it as a positive affirmation, such as – I am becoming fit and healthy everyday by eating healthy foods and keeping active  can give you the feeling of adding to your life rather than losing something through sacrifice.  Post your positive affirmation where you see it daily, such as a bathroom mirror or refrigerator, and you will be reminded of your intentions on a regular basis.   Repetition, over time, creates a habit!

2.  Clear the clutter to make room for the new to come into your life.  This cannot be overstated!  Clutter can include physical, emotional, computer or people clutter.  An old Chinese proverb states that you can change the energy around you quickly by moving 27 things in your home.  This re-energizes the life force (ch’i) around you.  One way to do this is to replace or remove pictures, art work or other decor that does not make you happy.  Only keep items in your space that brings you a positive feeling.

You can also clear out items in your closet that you truly do not love to wear (rationalizing about its cost or that you might wear it someday is holding stagnant energy in place).  Be grateful for the time you did enjoy it, then donate or sell it so someone else who needs it will find it!  Most of us only wear 10 – 20% of what’s hanging in our closet anyway!  If you haven’t worn something in a full year, you probably won’t.

Go through your computer files and e-mails to delete what is no longer needed.  This is one of my 2012 goals – keep only what’s important to keep.   You will allow more room for new information and opportunities to come along!   Are you holding on to emotional baggage from past situations that no longer serve you?  Maybe this is the year to learn a new technique or find help to allow you to release the hold it has on you.

3.  Use physical affirmations in your space to support your goals.  If one of your resolutions is to become more fit and healthy, give your refrigerator and pantry a good cleaning and re-stock with foods that will support healthier eating.  The kitchen represents abundance & prosperity, so keep it clean & clear of clutter.  It’s where the body is nourished.   If you want to become more active, have your workout clothes and gear more accessible so you can grab them and go.   If you want to write more, keep your desk clear with writing materials out and available – maybe even purchase a beautiful new pen and journal to write with.

Another great physical affirmation is a Vision Board.  It is a dream board made up of words, pictures and drawings representing what you want in your life.  This can be made out of almost anything, but poster board is the most common.  You can create an amazing visual using old magazines, photos, colored pencils, markers, glue sticks or tape you can create an amazing  visual.  A Vision Board get-together with a few friends can be just the ticket to bring additional positive energy to its creation!   Make sure you place it where you see it daily.

We believe each new year offers the opportunity to make positive changes to our lives.  Whatever you desire to have in the coming year, I wish you the best success!

Your Front Door – The Mouth of Ch’i

In feng shui, a welcoming front entrance to a home is very important. It allows the ch’i, or life force, to enter and meander around, which positively affects the occupants’ energy.  If the ch’i can’t find the front door or gets stuck once it enters, it can have a negative effect.   If you want to bring more positive ch’i into your home, there are several things you can do.

While most of us probably enter our homes through our garages,  the front door is the main entrance where the ch’i enters, as well as most other guests.  Every so often, walk in and out through your front door, to get a feel of what the rest of the world sees.  Get rid of any clutter on the walkway leading up to the front door.  Trim back bushes that may be obstructing the walkway, deadhead flowers and re-pot any sick or dead plants.  Repair cracked cement, missing bricks, loose handrails, non-working doorbells, squeaky door hinges and loose handles. Your address numbers should also be easily visible.  You may have heard that painting the front door red is a good idea.  It is true that red is an energizing color, but the most important point is to have it well maintained.  Hanging wind chimes near the front door will also beckon the ch’i in!

Now, open the front door and step into the foyer of your home.  What do you see first?  How does it make you feel?  Is it neat and clean, or are there shoes piled up behind the door, boxes in a corner or a pile of laundry that needs to be put away?  Clutter decreases the amount of positive ch’i coming into your home.  If you always run around cleaning up your entrance before company comes, take this as a clue!  It needs to stay uncluttered and clean for you.  If you feel that nobody really sees the mess, remember….you are considering yourself nobody.  If you see it – it matters.  There is no place to hide in feng shui!

Welcome to Feel Good In Your Space!

Do you love your home – every room, every space?  Do you feel comfortable spending time in each room?  Do you feel welcomed walking into your home at the end of the day?  Does it feel like your safe haven – a place to rest, rejuvenate and re-energize yourself?   Is your life going well in all areas (your health, love life, creative endeavors, family relations, financially, reputation-wise, and spiritually)?  If you answered YES to all of these questions, then this blog may not interest you.  If you answered NO to any or all of them, information and suggestions offered here can help change your answers to Yes!

The art & science of Feng Shui has been around for thousands of years, but our western society is just now understanding the relationship of our physical environment to the quality of our lives.   Feng Shui is not a religion or a cult, but a way of looking at your world using a recipe book, if you will.  These recipes include the use of color, furniture arrangement, specific intention, clutter clearing and placement of items in your space that support your lifestyle and dreams.

Take this journey with me and see if changing your space will change your life!

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